The Secret of Adulthood

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THE SECRET

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Get a picture perfect smile

TIP 1 - PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT

Keep smiling in front of the mirror to see how you look.  The more you do it, the more relaxed you'll be and you'll look more natural in pictures.

TIP 2 -  SMILE LIKE YOU MEAN IT

There is nothing worse than a forced smile.  Smile straight at the camera to ensure your smile reaches your eyes and looks genuine.

TIP 3 -  DO A SMILE EXERCISE BEFORE THE SHOOT

Stretch your lips wide, then open up your mouth to a big "O".  Wiggle your mouth around in different directions, then smack your lips together a few times.  This will help relax your mouth and jaw.

TIP 4 - PREPARE YOUR PEARLY WHITES

When you smile, the first thing people notice are your teeth.  So ensure you maintain your dental hygiene.

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How to UNcomplicate your life

You see, when we’re born we see the world in an uncomplicated way. We know what we need, and we ask for it. We like nice people, and we don’t like mean people. 

As we grow older, we eat and drink to console ourselves, rather than addressing what’s bothering us. We overwork to avoid close relationships, rather than finding people we can trust to form strong bonds with. We hold grudges and we get too far away from our basic human needs. In other words, we complicate things.

Here are ways to uncomplicate 

1. Don’t try to read other people’s minds

2. Get up 30 minutes earlier so that you don’t rush/get a ticket while driving too fast/have to explain why you’re late/get fired

3. Stick to your budget

4. Don’t try to be friends with everyone. Cultivate closer relationships with fewer people.

5. Don’t try to do business with everyone. Identify your target client and take very good care of them.

6. Before getting angry, ask yourself if it will really matter in 20 years

7. Focus on being a good person, not on pleasing others

8. Make a weekly menu, and shop for only those items at the market

9. Fill up your gas tank when it’s half full

10. Pay your bills on time

11. For just one day, imagine everyone’s intentions are good because most people’s are

12. When you have a conflict with someone, talk it out. Don’t let it turn into more than it is.

13. Know what your priorities are in life, and act accordingly.

14. Tell the truth

15. If you’re holding on to a ridiculous grudge, let it go

16. Do your best at work, or at school

17. Don’t eat when you aren’t hungry

18. Eat when you are hungry

19. Be yourself

20. Say no unapologetically

21. Cook simple meals

22. Pay off your car before buying a new one

23. Organise your important paperwork

24. Spend your time with nice people

25. Avoid drama

26. Don’t engage in office politics

27. Refuse to gossip, or talk behind other people’s backs

28. Never go to sleep angry

29. Ask nicely for what you need and want

30. Leave work at work

31.  Don’t work more than 8 hours per day

32. Don’t look for reasons to be angry or sad, look for reasons to be happy. 

33. Be friendly with your neighbours

34. Return emails and phone messages promptly

35. Don’t procrastinate

36. Forgive and forget. End of story.

37. Don’t let your imagination run away with you

38. Let go of perfection in others

39. Let go of perfection in yourself

40. Don’t try to help those that refuse to help themselves

41. Drink more water

42. Don’t make a mountain out of a molehill

43. Finish what you start

44. Allow your children to grow up

45. If a relationship is over, let it go

Dia Bukan Cinta No. 1

Nombor 1 Allah
Nombor 2 Rasulullah 
Nombor 3 suami


Itulah turutan cinta seorang wanita bernama isteri, (jika  pada lelaki, nombor 3 itu ibu, no 4 itu apa, no 5 baru isteri). Agar tidak menderita, jagalah turutan cinta ini. 


Yang dahulu, wajar didahulukan. Yang kemudian, mesti dikemudiankan. 


Jangan disusun cinta itu begini… Nombor 1 suami. Nombor 2 suami. Nombor 3 pun suami. Ini tindakan yang bakal mengundang kecewa.

Jangan pinggirkan Allah 
kerana Dia yang mengurniakan rasa cinta. 


Jangan dilupakan Rasulullah 
kerana dia yang memberi panduan untuk bercinta. 


Ingat pesan Rasulullah melalui sabda Baginda dalam hadis riwayat al-Tirmizi yang bermaksud: “Jika aku hendak menyuruh seseorang supaya sujud kepada seseorang, tentulah aku perintahkan isteri supaya sujud kepada suaminya.”

“Jika” hanya “jika”. “Jika” akan kekal sebagai “jika”. Ia tidak pernah berlaku. Seorang wanita tidak boleh menyembah manusia lain sekalipun suaminya sendiri. 


Sebaiknya, cintailah suami dengan cara yang ditunjukkan oleh Rasulullah kerana Allah. Itulah resepi untuk bahagia dalam bercinta!

Siapakah yang menempuh gerbang perkahwinan dengan harapan untuk bercerai? Tidak mungkin ada!

ditulis oleh Pahrol Mohd Juoi

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